Disclaimer.. I am who I am Get with it or Get left behind

I was doing my daily Twitter reads today and a good friend of mine updated her status with a disclaimer to her followers and i ABSOLUTELY LOVED IT... I don't remember exactly what it said but do remember that it was along the lines of Welcome and thank you for following.. before anyone gets offended I am who I am.. I say what I want and if you don't like it your loss... In a nut shell.. I had to send her a message saying girl I should put a disclaimer on all my spots lol... Everyday I look up and I have a new follower on my Blog... I get super excited and then a week later its minus one.. Same with Twitter... Sometimes its discouraging others it makes me laugh... Why should I mask my feelings or who I am? If you haven't already been able to tell I'm not at all a SAFE person... I'm the person who's the life of the party .. the person who everyone turns at for a reaction because they know I'm going to say What I want When I want and How I want no questions asked... So with that being said my disclaimer...

I AM WHO I AM... GET WITH IT OR GET LEFT BEHIND!!!

That is all folks!

xoxo

O to be young and single

I am convinced that the world only has a handful of GOOD MEN... That they all are taken and I have snatched up the LAST ONE.. THESE DAMN CLOWNS SMH...I am pretty sure that there are no males following me as of yet, if you are please be so kind to give me your opinion... But AS A WOMAN... Sure, I'm married! I love my husband!!! I also am always in situations where I am around males full faced with makeup, hair done, outfit maxed out (hey this is my blog, my personal down time lol) so compliments are always given and always welcome. I must admit that I am flattered to know that my husband isn't the only man on the earth who finds me attractive... But gentlemen when you approach a woman COME CORRECT OR DON'T COME AT ALL... Some women will turn their noses up in displeasure and walk away.. I WILL CUSS U OUT AND EMBARRASS YOUR ASS IN PUBLIC! "Hey Shawty Lemme Holla At you" Unacceptable, Any names other than my own which u don't know because I haven't given it to you are UNACCEPTABLE. DO NOT TOUCH ME IN ANYWAY SHAPE OR FORM AS I PASS YOU IN THE CLUB, LOUNGE, GAS STATION WHATEVER.. EW!  It is 2010 Women are all about SWAGGER!!!!!!!!!!! Let me say it again SWAGGER!!!!!!!! Not Game!!!! Swagger will get you a hell of alot further with a SINGLE WOMAN than a WACK ASS LINE that we have all Heard before... It is absolutely HILARIOUS! I'd rather be swept off my feet than rapped up..... Ladies...please tell me that I am NOT THE Only one who does not like to be approached as if I were a bucket head!!!! I tell my sisters all the time... U HAVE TO MAKE A MAN RESPECT YOU! And that starts with the inital introduction.... You are not going to address me ANYWAY! WOULD YOU ADDRESS YOUR MAMMA LIKE THAT?

Been there, done that, got a trophe and t-shirt

Sometimes I take advice and sometimes i give it... Some people just need a shoulder to lean on.. a girlfriend to sip wine with ... and a girlfriend thats on her way with a baseball bat if that crying call is placed to her... Sadly I'm the girl with the bat (Joke) (Okay, not really). In between the crying spells, the laughter, and the plotting I sometimes find myself speaking straight up and down knowledge having absolutely no idea where it came from hoping it will help... But the thing about giving advice is that you have to be strong enough to take your own... and sometimes in order to do what's right you have to do what's hard... Been there done that hunnie got a trophe and a t-shirt to prove it.

"Don't Look at Starting Over as the End of the World.  Look at Starting Over as Lifes New Beginnings. Reinvent yourself, Reestablish yourself, Get to know Yourself. And whatever you do hunnie DON'T LOOK BACK!"

Barbie Jones